Does gay marriage threaten the American way of life? Americans are divided on the issue of gay marriage by half saying that having it banned is unconstitutional, or the other half stating that it’s a mockery of heterosexual marriage. The controversy over gay marriage is decided on by the people based on whether they believe in fundamental rights or homophobic prejudice, which unfortunately leaves America divided as long as politicians use this issue as a propaganda tool for their elections.
In Katha Pollit’s essay “What’s Wrong with Gay Marriage?” she asks the core question best: “Will someone please explain to me how permitting gays and lesbians to marry threatens the institution of marriage?” (560). Liberal activists argue that the idea of marriage being solely between a man and a woman is the church’s idea of marriage, and that belief shouldn’t be the deciding factor in a country that should adhere to the separation of church and state as one of the most basic foundations of its government. Liberals have to argue that homosexuality is not just for procreation; gay couples should get the same benefits as married ones. The media also states another reason, Stephanie Cutter, a spokeswoman for Sen. John Kerry’s election campaign, commented on how President Bush’s re-election strategy was to “use wedge issues and the politics of
fear to divide the nation” (Bush Calls For Ban On Same-Sex Marriages). So, according to liberals, President Bush used fear and prejudice to recruit most Americans to his cause of getting re-elected. Homosexuals don’t actively undermine the church, nor are they the sex crazed beasts that politicians would have you believe, so what is wrong with gay marriage?
Well, according to a statement in Charles Colson’s ‘Gay “Marriage’: Societal Suicide,” he writes that marriage is not designed to satisfy its participants, that even religious teachings support the fact that “The family, led by a married mother and father, is the best available structure for both child rearing and cultural health” (568). The people that are against gay marriage clearly support a law banning it because they believe that it contradicts the very idea of marriage being between a man and a woman, and doesn’t stand for the ideal of a proper family or a healthy society. President Bush has even commented on how some local authorities have created confusion by allowing gay marriage in their locality, and that a law would clearly define marriage as being between men and women, and it would both protect the institution of marriage and strengthen its positive effects on our society “Bush Calls For Ban On Same-Sex Marriages”.
According to studies in Norway, in 1993 their courts allowed gay marriage and out of wedlock births went up because the connection between marriage and having children had been lost on their people, making procreation more widespread between same-sex couples (567). So another reason for argument that gay marriage is wrong is