Adoption With No Limits
The child’s choice, above all, is most important when determining the right adoptive family. Ignoring transracial adoptions causes the child to be in foster care longer and limits the amounts of parents available for the child. Adoption should not be based on race, ethnicity, or religion. Laws were placed to enforce these rules, but sadly, there are political figures and stereotypes that find loopholes in these laws. The child’s choice may also change, as he or she gets older. The child may want to be part of their own race and find their own identity (Dudley 21). Luckily, there are ways to help the child find his or her own identity and teach them how to handle a racist society.
Transracial adoptions (TRA) mean placing a child of one race or ethnic group with parents of another race or ethnic group (Transracial and Transcultural Adoption). Many people oppose transracial adoption because they believe the child won’t be able to handle racism. They contend that their parents haven’t experienced how society reacts towards the race of the child (Bartholet). Many people support transracial adoption because they believe all that a child needs is a loving family who will care and comfort them instead of living their whole life in foster care. Inter-country adoption will allow the child to feel wanted and loved, and the child will not have to worry about why their parents put them up for adoption. The door to adoption should always be opened; it should never be closed because of the color of the child or the adoptive parents.
The first thing people see is the color. The first thing the child sees is a loving family. Adoption will give the child a loving, stable, and secure family, and also a life outside of changing and foster care walls (Dudley 21). A child should not live his or her whole life feeling unwanted in foster care. Declining the act of transracial adoption not only affects the child, but the adoptive parents as well. Imagine a 7-year-old child in foster care. Through the window, out into the hall he sees a decent looking family with a mother, a father, and a daughter about two years older than him. They notice the child and come right in, introducing themselves to the child. They talk and the child seems really happy, thinking this could be the family. As they leave the child notices a formal woman talking to the family. The family points to the child and the woman shakes her head in disappointment. She points to another child in the corner who is the same color as the family. The family looks back at the child who they just met with sad eyes and leave. The 7-year-old boy soon realized that he wasn’t adopted because of the color of his skin.
The small story explains what it feels like being unwanted. It also depends on the “commitment of the parent” (Furgatch). If that family really wanted the child, they would have fought for the child thorough long nights, paper work, and courts. Transracial adoption is a long...