Being born a woman, we are constantly being told, that until we look a particular way, we can’t be proud of our bodies, we spend so much of out lives hating our bodies, struggling against it and punishing it, for having curves, wrinkles or spots.The media, the dieting industry, the fashion industry and so many of our cultural outlets tell women that we have to change ourselves to be beautiful. In this way, they can keep making money off of women’s insecurities. And, while both men and women are deeply emotional creatures, I believe if I were the opposite sex, I wouldn’t have this need to feel compelled to always look a certain way to enhance my beauty. While men also have their own insecurities, they are able to overcome the things that matter to us women.
Men are taught to repress their emotions. They are taught at a young age to not cry and to be strong.----write more-----
From the time I was a little girl all the way through the phases of womanhood, we are given messages that sex is not for women. That sexual women are called “sluts” or “whores.” That our reputation as women are generally separated into two categories - marriageable mothers or whores who you sleep with. As I became more open about my sexuality in high school, I was labeled a “slut.” I wasn’t going off and looking for boys to sleep with, I was just simply very open about talking about sex and everything else in between. I was and still am, cultivating a strong relationship with myself where you listen to your inner voice, speak up for yourself, follow your dreams, and proudly request what you want from others in your life. I am creating the life I want and being a mentor to my future children, teaching them to be true to themselves as well. If I was a man instead of a woman this would most likely not have happened. Instead, if a man is open about sex, his friends would applaud him and girls would call him a player. Its weird how being a specific gender changes the outlook on you.
Now that I mention a little about myself as the sex I am today - all this talk about being the opposite sex makes one think, how life would truly be like if they were born the opposite sex? From the moment we are placed into our mothers/fathers awaiting arms, we are influenced by everything and everyone around us. Even if we don’t recall the details as an infant, the actions and the feelings that surround us, form us into who we are, as we mature.
As we enter primary school, the friends we make during our childhood also have an influence towards shaping our lives. Girls gravitate towards other girls and they learn to play house, tend to play activities that are more feminine than male sports. While boys gravitate towards other boys and they learn to play soccer, made fun of the weaker, less masculine boys, be rebellious and so on. We may think that our behavior, our personality, our career path, our sexuality, may not change, if we were born the opposite sex, but one has to take...