Bullying is a growing problem among young members of today’s society. However, bullying can be prevented in several ways for the victims and there are ways to get over the traumatic experience.
In first through fourth grade, my brother was subjected to bullying by his peers. It started when they claimed things about him that were not true. In first and second grade, the bullies would tease him about anything they could think of, like him being a baby and a weirdo. In third and fourth grade, things began to get more serious. While the bullies still called him names, they also began to push and shove him. They even hit him. In fourth grade, other students threw things at him, hit him, and punched him. One time, in the school library, one of the bullies began to kick him in the leg. So my brother slapped the bully in the face to protect himself. It had gotten so bad for my brother that one day, while leaving the lunchroom at school, one of the bullies decided to choke him. My family took a drastic step to protect my brother from the bullying he dealt with almost every day. He got out of the bullying situation by staying behind a grade to be with another class. This separated him from the bullies in his own grade, so they could no longer hurt him. Those recurring attacks really hurt his self esteem, and can turn into a traumatic experience for anyone it happens to.
Bullying can happen to anyone. There are many reasons for why bullies victimize others and behave the way they do. However, there are many ways to properly inform young adults on how to prevent bullying, and what to do if you witness it. There are ways for a victim to help themselves or others to help the situation.
Bullying is when a person is victimized continuously by an individual or group with more physical or social power. There is more than one type of bullying. Four types of bullying are verbal, physical, social and cyber bullying. (Bullying Definition).
When a bully says or writes unfriendly and/or threatening things to his or her victim, this is Verbal Bullying. When a verbal bullying occurs, the bully may tease the victim about topics such as their appearance, weaknesses, or social standing. He or she may call them unwanted names such as freak or loser. They may make inappropriate or unwanted sexual comments to their victims. The bully may taunt the victim or even make threats to the victim. (Helpguide)
Social bullying, which may sometimes be referred to as relational bullying, is when the bully batters a person’s relationships or reputation. When one socially bullies a person, they may leave the person out on group activities, or tell other children or teens not to be friends with the person. The bully may also spread mean or embarrassing rumors about the victim or embarrass them on purpose in public. (Helpguide)
Physical bullying includes physically hurting the victim’s body or the victim’s possessions. When someone physically bullies another, they could damage or steal...