A long distance relationship can have many meanings and experiences may be very different from one person to another. For some people, living a long distance from a loved one may be a normal routine in life, while for some people the occasional distance can be difficult and challenging. A long distance relationship can be for a few days, years, or months can occur over a few days, months. For other people, long distance relationship is just like something normal in their family structure, and other people it is like a new experience.
Vincent and I met when we were in grade school, and since then we have grown into best friends and then into boyfriend and girlfriend for more than a year now. Vincent was from the class below me, and while I was heading to another college, we decided to start talking and ended up being in a relationship, knowing that it would be a long distance relationship. We entered into a long distance relationship having in mind that we were in school and needed to accommodate our relationship as best we could.
We decided to exploit every tool and technology possible, this was to help in communication on a daily basis through Skyping and phone calls gave us the opportunity to get to one each other without distractions or hesitations. Soon, Vincent decided to come over to SVC for a weekend, but when he left, I had to stay alone and keep thinking about him, it felt more painful after seeing him and being so happy.
What makes a long distance work is continuous communication, using other means of communication such as Skype and Facebook. The couple needs to keep the romance alive so that neither partner should not feel that he or she have some who does not care, and not making things be too personal in the relationship. Long distance relationship may fail to work due to poor communication, when a couple has not talked frequently concern the progress of the relationship, this may result to break. Building trust between the couples is a major factor if there is no trust the relationship is likely to fail. There are many factors that can lead to a successful long distance relationship;
It is much easier, and a good way to know somebody through continuous communications. You can learn about each other easily, learning about the inner character of your partner. Most of the time when couples are together they tend to pretend that everything is great compared to when one is away he or she can open up and say what he or she really feels.
Gaining enough time for other things; sometimes people can be committed to other things. When you are close to your spouse, it is always very difficult to have time for other things. However, long distance relationship is a not a time consuming compared to when you in the same locality. During free session, someone can use the time to meet his goals and also work on incomplete project that you started.
Though many adults appear to avoid commitment hence opt for a long distance relationship,...