In today’s society, divorce has become a normal thing in our lives. Married couples today are getting a divorce due to many different reasons. This essay will examine the cause and effect of divorce on children and couples for the last 25 years in America. Few of the causes might be getting married or the wrong reasons, lack of equality, abuse, spouses having an affair, loss of romantic feeling, conflicts, and other problems that will be discussed momentarily. The divorce would affect the children mentally, emotionally, and have a bad effect on their health. They struggle with self-esteem, weaken the bond or relationship between a child and his parents, and use of drugs and or weapons. One of the biggest effects of divorce on both the children and couple would be financial problems.
Historically, divorces were only granted in very special circumstances. In early American history, couples found it very difficult to be granted a divorce. There were existed strict rules and regulations in place that often forbid spouses from filing for divorce. (http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com). When a marriage breaks up, divorce law provides legal solutions for issues that the Husband and Wife are unable to resolve through mutual cooperation. . (http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com). The most important question in a divorce case was whether the court should grant a divorce. “When a divorce was granted, the resolution of continuing obligations was simple: The wife was awarded custody of any children, and the husband was required to support the wife and children.” (http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com). As of now, divorce has been very common, and more then half of Americans get divorced. Modern divorce laws have inverted the involvement of courts. One or both of the spouses now generally decide the issue of whether a divorce should be granted. (http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com).
One of the roots for divorce is getting married for the wrong reason. (http://www.yourtango.com) Many people run into marriage thinking they are ready for all the responsibilities that come with marriage but they are not. Some people that get divorce think getting married might avoid growing up. (http://eastcobb.patch.com) Forty-one percent of respondents said they weren’t prepared for what they were getting into when they got married. (http://eastcobb.patch.com) Many people entered marriage just because they wanted to be taken care of, and were very dependent on the person they were agreeing to spend the entire life with the person they marry.
Many people get blinded while falling in love. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com) They don’t get to know their mate well, and after marriage they feel like they married the wrong person. This can also be marriage at young age, when they feel they are in “love.” (http://poweroftwomarriage.com) Those who marry in their teens have much higher divorce rates. (http://poweroftwomarriage.com) By about age 21...