Children who grow up being abused physically or mentally will develop problems and the response by children to abuse and neglect could manifest in behaviors of delinquency such as dropping out of school, drugs, alcohol abuse, sexual promiscuity, prostitution, self-mutilation, stealing and other crimes and offenses. It does not matter whether you are born into a wealthy, middle class or poor family; children who are abused commit most of the same acts of delinquency.
In the Juvenile Justice system many ways have been explored and researched to determine the best means to prevent delinquency and help children who are juvenile delinquents. Programs have been developed starting in the early years as attempts to solve the juvenile delinquency problems. Houses of refuge were established as places of confinement for juvenile offenders. Later an alternative to houses of refuge, the cottage system, was created. The cottage system provided homes where children were sent to live with families who clothed, fed, provided them with supervision and had them work to teach discipline and responsibility. Later, special a Juvenile Court system was established around the country. Programs such as Upward Bound, Technical Schools (Automotive mechanic) counseling sessions, after school programs and government agencies were developed to find answers to and stop juvenile delinquency. After many years of seeking solutions; nothing is working as it should.
The reason for the lack of sufficient changes in juvenile delinquency is that the problems that leads to juvenile delinquency starts in the home and there has not been enough attention paid to the family dynamics which causes delinquency. Parents are the first relationship children have and they should be the ones who make children feel loved, protected and wanted. In too many cases, children are not made to feel this way by their parents. The problems of delinquency will be solved or at least decline tremendously when parents are made to be responsible for the children they bring into this world.
When children are unhappy at home because they are made to feel unworthy, inadequate, and are constantly told by their parents that they are not measuring up to what is expected of them, they will develop anger. It is the parents’ responsibility to help children gain the strength and self-confidence they need to live happy, healthy, successful lives in this world. Children need parents with whom they can communicate, share their most intimate feelings and concerns; receive the appropriate supervision, support in their development, and self-esteem. They need to know that their parents care and that they can be trusted to be present in their lives both physically and emotionally. A loving home must provide the elements discussed in the article, Family Relationships and Delinquency, Stephen A. Cernkovich and Peggy C. Giordan, Juvenile Delinquency and Justice, Sociological Perspectives, about...