As each individual explores reality, they stumble upon obstacles which eventually transforms
them into the best version of themselves. The influential key is to have the fortitude and the ability to forgive with benevolence. "Good timber does not grow with ease. The stronger the wind the stronger the trees." My eyes glew with intensity when the I first heard of this quote. The concept of this quote could not explain me any better. To me I believe struggles make people grow stronger and intelligent. Without the struggles I endure, I wouldn't be as strong and independent as I am today. I never could comprehend why happiness had its own way of taking its sweet time, but I'm glad it did. The changes I went through led me to become a wiser individual. Yes, I’m not perfect, and yes I do fall apart at times--but looking back, I wouldn’t want to change every complication that went wrong in my life, because those little things made me who I am today--Farhiya Ali Geylani.
It all began when my older sister Sabrina, was born in Kenya. Life was tough for my parents raising my four siblings in a unfortunate country. Living life lacking shelter, food, and protection in Kenya wasn’t easy, at the moment things couldn't get any worse. But then, the unexpected happen--the war approached. My mom ran miles bare feet, managing 4 children to escape the drastic crisis. A month later they were uprooted from the horrifying war in Kenya into a refugee camp. The camp, where hundreds of people lived crowdly seemed desperate at the time. Luckily, they were later brought to America from the camp after getting help from my grandpa.
Coming from Kenya to America was very different for my family. After a year of adjusting, I was born. On October 26, 1997 I was born in Minneapolis, MN. I didn’t grow up in a family with great wealth, but it didn’t bother me. I had someone to call a family and that’s all that mattered, until it all changed. I can’t remember much, but all I recall is becoming a very unhappy child. As days flew by, surprisingly...