In today's world there are numerous controversial topics. One that falls under the radar commonly is parenting techniques. Even if the thought is not orally expressed, everyone thinks they know the best way to raise a child. Who knows all the correct answers in parenting? It would be ignorant to believe a single person does. There are multiple aspects to parenting; discipline, education, moral values, and protection. Parents play a vital role by influencing children during their growth. David Bly said,"Your children will become what you are; so be what you want them to be." This should be taken into consideration by each parent. Sadly, however, this is not always the case. Those who do abide by this should continue to do so, thus, making productive parenting more common. The future generations depend on it.
Humans are complex beings. However, a child could be seen as more complex due to the fact that they are ignorant to many facts about life. This causes them to be influenced by various actions they see, and some of these actions may result in negative consequences. At this point, the parental figure is expected to appoint the discipline. Discipline can affect a child physically or mentally/emotionally.
Physical discipline is commonly thought of when the word discipline is mentioned. Many people find this punishment acceptable and effective. On the contrary, some view it as brutal and unnecessary. Physical punishment is used to discourage certain actions. The thought is that if a child is spanked, for instance, they will remember the spanking the next time they consider replaying the act that caused the punishment. Fear is a large factor here. The human race normally does not repeat actions that have negative consequences. If a parent was spanked as a child, they will commonly view this practice as natural. Research scientist Lisa Berlin expresses her opinion saying,"We're talking about infants and toddlers, and I think that just, cognitively, they just don't understand enough about right or wrong or punishment to benefit from being spanked." Perhaps this is so, but everyone is entitled to free thought. Overall, it is safe to imply that discipline is essential in the development of a child.
On the negative side, some adults take discipline too far. There is a point where discipline turns into abuse. This is something that will affect a child mentally/emotionally. The delineation between the two cannot be detected. Beating a child will scar them mentally which in turn will affect them emotionally. This will last much longer than the visible hurt. Every ten-seconds an account of child abuse is reported. Child abuse occurs at every socio-economic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions, and at all levels of education (Childhelp). Parenting plays a large role in the continuation of abuse, it has been proven that if a parent was beaten at a young age, they too will abuse their children. This aids the thought that future...