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Dar Williams Reminisces About Childhood In Song, When I Was A Boy

783 words - 4 pages

Keri-Anne Deabay
Sociology 101
Kim Huisman
"When I was a boy" Dar Williams
1. What is your interpretation of this song?
The song "When I was a Boy" by Dar Williams is her reminiscing about when she was a young child. She remembers all the things she did, and remembers how she always acted as more of a boy, than the "traditional" girl. She was always told that she needed protection from a man, or that she needed to act "proper", but she didn’t listen. She did what she wanted to, and didn’t worry about what other people thought. Then she grew up and missed those things. She feels the pressure to conform to the way that society says a girl should be. At the end of the song she is talking to a man, who is portrayed as either her boyfriend or husband, and he tells her that he went through the same thing that she did growing up.
2. Identify at least three agents of socialization in the song (chapter 3). How do the agent of socialization influence the narrator?
Generalized other is a term by George Herbert Mead for society's conscience. His theory is that by children taking on the roles of other people, they learn society's expectations. This applies to the song "When I was a Boy", because when the narrator talks about how she was when she was a child, she was told by society that that wasn’t how she should act. While she didn’t listen to them at the time, she grew up, and eventually conformed to how society wanted her to be. Also, the concept of the significant other. George Herbert Mead describes it as when a child takes on the role of someone close to them. The character in the song takes on the roles of her boy friends, not necessarily to copy them, but because that is how she felt most comfortable. This ultimately shaped how she grew up, and her perception of the way society separates the male and female genders. Related to the significant other concept, there is the take on the role of another concept. The is a term by George Herbert Mead that says that children acquire and understanding of themselves when they play. The girl in the...

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