Sociology of gender
Writing assignment #5
Dating has changed from the early 1900s. In the past, people did not have the technology available that we have in today's age but dating rituals in the modern era are highly technical. Whether it is in the past or today's ages there are six steps in the dating rituals: First is meet the person, second ask the person out, third decide where you want to go, fourth getting prepared for the date, fifth is going on the date, sixth completion of the date.
The first step in the dating ritual is meeting the person. In the college setting a student is able to meet a partner in a familiar setting. It can be easy or difficult for a college student depending on either students schedule, academic building location, ones own personal charisma on meeting people and plenty more factors. There are some students who have a significantly better opportunities such as for the Greek students to meet other Greek students at their events. Then there are ways for the non Greek members to meet.
For the Greek members it is much simpler for them to meet people because of their social events and gatherings they hold. Fraternities hold events, such as swaps with sororities. A swap is when sorority pledges meet fraternity pledges for an hour and an hour later have a bigger party where everyone mingles together. This is a way people will have a increased chance of getting to know each other before the party starts. There are other events Fraternities and Sororities hold besides Swaps such as Band parties, Mixers, and Philanthropy events to raise money for their houses, and charities such as Cancer research, children's homes, special needs and so much more.
The non Greek members of college. Often join clubs, work, or school held events and socialize with people. There are many choices in clubs to choose from. Choosing a club you believe you will have fun in will help make it less stressful going to meet a person. The school events such as the athletic departments sports teams game days. Most students enjoy going to the football or basketball games. So that is a good start to meet people.
For those who do neither of those, there are online services to use to meet people like facebook and twitter. Or use dating sites like Match.com, Harmony.com, plentyoffish.com and many more. These sites help those who are too busy with work or do not have time to go out and socialize at cubs, school events or clubs. Also, they help if the personal is too shy or nervous to start talking to someone face to face straight off the bat.
The second step is to ask the person out. During this era we use online resources such as dating sites or other types of communication sites such as Facebook, email websites, or any other website supporting chat options. Another option would be using a cell phone to text or call the person you wish to gone the date with. Also, you can always ask the person face to face.