Anytime anyone is about to have a baby the first question is "Is it a boy or a girl?" People ask this question because there is a difference between the two genders. Several are curious to know whether the baby will turn out to be a sweet young lady or a strong young man. Even as children, the distinctions are obvious and stand apart. A young girl may ask a boy "What's that?" A young boy may ask a girl "Where's yours?" This is their first step towards self discovery. Everyone knows there is a difference but no one ever stops to see how many there truly are. There are numerous reasons why someone has become the gender they are, which is why the two appear different. Various people have been in the fight for equality over the years, they argue that even though we are all so different we can all be treated in the same way. In spite of the need for equality among men and women, there are still many differences, such as, body image, mate selection, sexuality, and stereotypes.
In selecting a mate, women look at different attractions than a man would. According to Rachel Herz, women are greatly attracted to the way a man smells and is typically one of the first things a woman looks for when selecting a mate. As a first impression, women want to be put into a daze or mesmerized by the individual they have come into contact with. Gender is not the only factor that a woman looks for when selecting a mate. Many women go deeper and search for things, such as, race, ethnicity, age, and good providers (Our Bodies 186). These affect many women by the importance they bring to a relationship. Typically women are looking for someone that they can spend their lives with, therefore they look for the qualities that could make a good husband.
Women are very complex creatures when it comes to a person that they are interested in whereas men look at a whole different perspective. According to the study done by Herz, men tend to be more simplistic in their mate selection by focusing on a woman’s appearance. Men tend to look for the exact thing that they want. Many of them see a woman and know that she is what they are looking for. Others may move on if the woman they see is not the exact image that they perceive of the women they want in their head. Herz also leads into that gentlemen base their long term decisions upon the high supposed fertility of a woman to increase the probability of gene transmission. For many males, they are searching for the here and now, someone to support them in the present without an aspect of what the future will be, before they are ready to take that step. As men look towards the future they want to be reassured that they will have high perspective in producing an heir to live on after they are gone.
When examining the differences between a woman's and a man's body image many different qualities come into play, for example, genetics and physical outlook. ...