Discipline or Violence
“Train-up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Proverbs 22:6 (ESV-Bible, 2001)
Without doubt, many who are parents today they never had the proper instruction on how to discipline their children, and this is because they were disciplined the wrong way, since much of the discipline that they received was applied many times by neglect and even the physical abuse, and giving this as a result that they want to apply what they received, although this was applied in the wrong way.
This is where the true way of how to discipline children begin to take shape, and it is precisely in these days when there are a lot of resources ...view middle of the document...
” (Larsen, 1999, p. 282) Not only parents or society they have to come to understand that it is not only through programs that help deal with such situations found in many homes. But also the Church should understand the important role that she played in the formation of future parents, teaching them the biblical and true way of how to discipline their children, casting aside the anti-God and anti-Bible thoughts that are currently in the world.
It is very unfortunate that one of the many problems that facing today’s society is an increase of violence, particularly at home, because many of these families are young families who sadly never were taught the right way how to discipline their children, nor at these parents received the necessary instruction biblically speaking, as they coping in how to discipline their children.
It is alarming that the only instruction they received was following the wrong model of instruction, either from their parents or the example that they receive from other parents as well. “Overall, results provided some evidence to suggest that children raised by religiously homogamous conservative Protestant parents who follow guidelines regarding the use of corporal punishment may be less likely to display problem behaviors than other children who are spanked.” (Petts, 2012, p. 459) But sometimes when using this type of discipline, many children will be developing signs of rebellion without any fear of any authority, but more terrible is that they have grown up without the knowledge of God who is love and mercy, and today they affected in such a way that many of them they will be responsible for the depths of decay of the society in which they live.
Each parent has to take the responsibility to inquire in which is the best way as far as discipline it is concerned, so that they can be transmitters of the correct and biblical discipline, creating healthy societies which will have their foundation in the immovable Word of God.
How to Deal Anger with Discipline
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:4 (ESV-Bible, 2001)
It is alarming that many times, parents are the responsible in causing anger in their children, and when they doing this it will create a vicious circle in their families, due to the fact that in the way these children were raised, in the in the future they will follow the same example seen in their parents raising their own children, “Children in this type of family, learn to read their parents moods and live in fear.” (Gliebe, 2012, p. 69)
These issues when ranging from generation to generation are the main obstacles that exist in many families today, and that only by being sensitive to the voice of God in their lives will make it possible that such problems are solved, “As Exodus reveals, the sins of the fathers are passed down unto the third and fourth generations. Unfortunately, these unhealthy generational patterns are...