According to the New York Times “two hundred trillion text messages are sent in The United States everyday.” (Chen)  Since technology such as social media and text messaging has become ubiquitous, we have been able to connect easier than ever. But ironically this is making humans less social by de-emphasizing our face-to-face connections for the first time in history.
As the use of technology increases, the social skills of people have declined. The basic principles of social interaction such as courtesy, and the skill to interact with others is shrinking in everyday life, because people now have been indulged in electronic networking. Especially among teens today the prime users of technology. For example, a recent study “found that more teens report contacting their friends on a daily basis using texting (54%) than interacting with them face-to-face outside of school (33%).” (Ling) 
There's nothing wrong with having a phone, it really is almost a necessity in many parts of the world and in daily life, however what matters most is how we use it. We should never be too consumed on our phones because they give a false feeling of being in two places at once, but the truth is, you're missing the one that counts. When you hangout with your friends do they glare at the their smartphones half of the time? It kind of becomes habit and is hard to avoid. I do it too. Smartphones give us constant updates about whats going on in the outside world and we care. Smartphones have so many activities and options like Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr etc there always something to look at. Smartphones are also great excuse to not directly talk with people, usually people you don't know. Instead of joining in and making friends, you can hide out and be busy on your phone until you leave. Doesn't that make you feel isolated.
In a New York Times Interview with the Charlene deGuzman the creator of a short video called “I Forgot My Phone” she says “It makes me sad that there are moments in our lives where we’re not present because we’re looking at a phone.” (deGuzman)  The two minute long video follows Charlene throughout the day. Where her friends are staring down at there phones, while having lunch together, in the bowling alley and at a birthday party where even the birthday boy was on his phone too. But technology keeps us connected better than ever, trust me I love my phone, but maybe they are the distractions that are preventing us from living out our lives, “ I was at a concert and people around me were recording the show with their phones, not actually watching the concert.”  (deGuzman) Technology holds a great amount of power over us, and its our job to be careful and manage that power in good ways. After all you don’t want to be that guy sitting around in his basement all day, who...