Did you know that 100 divorces occur each hour and 1,250,000 divorces occur each year in the United States? (Matthews). Between 1970 and 1977 divorce rates rose 79%. Even though these high rates have declined, a high proportion of marriages still end in divorce (Avins). The divorce rate today in the Untied States is 44%, the rate of divorce for the people who marry for the first time is close to 30% (Avins)(Pattern 1). Divorce has been on a constant rise for the past years in American History, causing a handful of affects on children.
Marriage is traditionally defined as a social institution uniting men and women in special forms of mutual dependence for the purpose of founding and maintaining families (Polomeno). At the age of 16, with parental consent, a majority of states will allow marriage. For the couples that marry between the ages of 14 and 17 years of age they are twice as likely to divorce as couples who wait until their twenties (Kecskes). Today the average age of first marriage is 27 for women and 29 for men, but fewer than 8% of women and 13% of men married for the first time at the age of 30 or older (Avins) (Pattern 1A). Couples who marry when they are 18, 19, and 20 tend to be blindsided by many problems that take place during marriage such as unemployment, abuse, unexpected pregnancy, in-laws, affairs and many more (Kecskes.) Youthful marriages are a higher risk factor to divorce instead of couples who wait till they are older because of low income, poverty, and cohabitation before marriage. Around two thirds of couples who marry today are already live together and are known to be less committed in marriage (Koontz).
A common mistake in young marriages is the lack of preparation for a lifelong commitment as they often realize that they haven’t achieved a fully formed self. Lack of commitment is another high reason for divorce, especially amongst young couples. Usually some couples get married in a rush without fully knowing each other. These couples end up in many situations where they cheat or lie or are unable to fulfill commitment to their partner. According to Avins the needs for intimacy, companionship and love are being placed upon marriage and other types of relationships and it is inevitable that the higher the emotional expectations, the less likely they are to be fulfilled.
Researchers have also found evidence that social network sites are bringing issues into marriages, which are leading to higher divorce rates. Sites such as Facebook and Myspace are known to tempt unhappy spouses to seek out others, which often works against marriage (Isles). According to Avins, cases which are involved with explicit photos that spouses posted on the internet, secret messages, and intimate chat messages between a spouse and another individual are likely triggers for divorce. Spouses who admit they found their spouse online posting inappropriate comments at some point in marriage is a common issue and leads to many divorce...