Children are highly affected by divorce. This is an extremely vulnerable and devastating time in a child’s life. After a divorce, the child’s life becomes increasingly burdensome and stressful due to an absent parent and economic lost. Most children have a difficult time adjusting and their behavior is impacted. This transitory phase gobbles up the child and the negative effects and mental strain may remain with them their whole lives. The negative effects include behavioral, academic, and mental challenges.
The loss of a parents causes loss in knowledge, skills, resources and emotional well-being for children whose parents are divorced. The teaching and application of skills are not taught and the need to pass down knowledge is diminished due to the lack of parental involvement caused by a change a of role in parents. Support and resources are lost from a parent while emotional support and care are also highly diminished. Children have a difficult time coping with divorce more so than parents do. Parents who adjust to the divorce in a favorable matter will help their children transition quicker and easier, thus, avoiding the set of problems that may arise after the divorce.
One effect of a divorce is that children live a more stressful life. When parents’ divorce, one parent may relocate, thus, resulting in a change of school for the child. Also, for toddlers and young children who are inadequate to take care of themselves, they are most likely to attend a childcare program resulting from the parent having to work more. Young children experience anxiety when a parent has to leave for work and they tend to experience social anxieties as well. Children alternating between homes will have a constant change in environment which causes confusion and stress in a child’s life. This constant change in environment is taxing and can take a mental toll on a child’s.
Losing a parent through a divorce causes a lack of role models in the home resulting in an array of behavioral problems as opposed to children being raised in an unbroken family. When a parent is absent, children lack the essential role model figure in which children model themselves after. Furthermore, single parents have to work more in order to provided and support their family, thus, children in divorced homes lack the guidance and disciplinary needs a child needs. Without proper guidance and discipline, children will make wrong choices and gravitate towards the wrong crowd. Academics are highly impacted because children do not have the adequate amount of support in school from their parent due to the long hours of work.
Conflicts between parents after a divorce is another factor for children. Constant bickering and fighting over assets and child support may lead to resentment. Children may often over hear the arguments, things said, and witness the fighting, which may become the norm for the child...