Usually the thought of marriage comes with a connotation of spending forever with a special person, however, today divorce is at an all time high. Oklahoma in particular has a higher than average divorce rate. With divorce affecting all aspects of life, there is a significant effort to reduce these numbers. Everything should be done to educate couples and reduce the divorce rate in Oklahoma.
The human race began the practice of marriage in the time of the Egyptians. At this time marriage was about inheritance and property. It was not until the 18th century that people began marrying for love.Couples married young and stayed together for the remainder of their lives. Now a days marriage is becoming more of a milestone. It is a box that needs to be checked off by a certain point whether true love is involved or not. And because of this the divorce rates are through the roof. Until recently divorce was a rare occurrence and usually had to be approved upon by a religious figure. In recent years divorce has become a more prominent practice. Divorce used to be looked down upon and those who got divorces were considered at some level failures. This day and age divorce is widely accepted as a norm.
The data is grim when it comes to marriage and divorce in the United States and, more specifically, Oklahoma. “In the United states, researchers estimate that 40%-50% of all first time marriages, and 60% of all second time marriages will end in divorce” (“Impact of Divorce”). The estimated population of Oklahoma on July 1, 2010 was 3,687,050 people, and during this year the state of Oklahoma issued out 27,012 marriage licenses, however, it also authorized 19,589 divorce decrees(Marriage and Divorce). This means there were approximately three fourths as many divorce decrees issued compared to marriage licenses in the same year. This data gives little faith for a lasting marriage, and a bleak impression of what marriage has become.
Many of the leading causes of divorce can easily be fixed with counseling and other marriage preservation measures. Money problems are a big issue between married peoples. Researchers say that couples that make at least $50,000 a year have significantly lower chances of divorce compared to couples that make less than $25,000 annually (Fackrell, How Common is Divorce, 42). Understandably arguments about, and an inability to manage finances can be very stressful for even the most loving couples. Most marital problems caused by financial dilemmas can be solved with either financial or marital counseling. Another noted cause for divorce is one or both of the couple having divorced parents. One partner having divorced parents approximately doubles the risk of divorce, while if both partners have divorced parents the risk factor almost triples (Fackrell, How Common is Divorce, 43). Couples can help to reduce the effects a broken home can have on their relationship by realizing the risks and getting both premarital counseling, and, if need...