In the United States, every nine seconds a woman is abused or beaten. ("Domestic Violence Statistics") That one statistic alone could affect the minds of many women. Personally, I cringe at the thought of women being treated this way. It is sickening to know that so many men are laying their hands on a woman. It makes one wonder what kind of life style those men were raised in. Was their mother beaten or abused? Was their mother even in their life? Were the men taught that abusing women was okay? No matter what the past has done to or taught those men, abusing and beating women will never be acceptable.
When women are abused or beaten, it leaves scars; maybe not physical scars, but emotional scars. Out of personal experience, I know my way of thinking and the ability to get close to men is forever changed because of issues I dealt with in the past. A lot of women have it worse than I did, so I can only imagine how they live their life. Some people think it is not a big issue to be abused or beaten. They think it cannot take a toll on an individual’s mind as much as it really does. The everyday thought process is completely different for women who have been abused, whether it be physically or even emotionally. Women are supposed to feel safe in their own home, but statistics show that women are actually more prone to being abused in their own home by someone they know rather than being attacked by a complete stranger. Heartbreakingly, approximately 1500 women are killed by their husband or boyfriend. (Dickson) Having that kind of fear to come home to every single day can leave deep emotional and psychological scars in women.
Abusing women does not only affect that specific woman. If there are children around, it can also cause mental scars for them as well. Studies show that children who are exposed to domestic violence are more likely to be an abuser when they get older than a child who is not exposed to it. (Dickson) Also, a women who is abused is at a higher risk for having children born with autism. I personally believe that is what is wrong with society today. More and more women are being abused and beaten, and the older generation is wondering why. If abuse is what a child is exposed to their entire life, it is thought in their mind that abuse is normal and okay. When those children grow up and start abusing women, the most common underlying reason is because that is what they were taught growing up. Parents have no one else to blame but themselves when they discover that their child is abusing someone.
Lastly, I believe that if women were not abused or beaten so much it would cut down on crime rates throughout the world. Think of it this way. If more women would speak up and turn their abusers in, resulting in the abuser being severely punished for their actions, it would provide a stable example for other men to witness what they might have to deal with if they continue to abuse or...