Arranged marriage is the idea that marriages should be arranged by the parents or other family members. This is acceptable in some parts of the world but for some it is completely out of the question. If choosing our life long partners are our most basic rights as an individual then why are arranged marriages still enforced among other nations? Arranged marriages shouldn’t be enforced because of the infringement on rights and freedom of a female and male, the boundaries it creates to diversity and the consequence of illiteracy and lack of education upon women.
The idea of enforcing an arranged marriage causes problems with feminists. Because the procedures involved in arranging marriages lead to differences in the autonomy with which individual women can choose their spouses, those procedures bear some scrutiny from a feminist standpoint (Yalom and Carstensen 214). Arranged marriages put a strain on a female being able to be independent and picking her own spouse. These types of marriages give women an unfair share in their own self-determination. According to Yalom and Carstensen, arranged marriages could pose a particular problem if (1) they are arranged with less input from women than men; (2) they produce inequities of power between women and men; and (3) they are an integral part of a host of other practices reflecting and maintaining women's lower societal status, permitting treatment of women as commodities or property.
This is all true because in many Middle Eastern parts of the world, parents or family members choose the spouse for the female. The inequity of power between women and men is highly apparent in these arranged marriages. The husbands were usually required to be rich, educated, successful and of high social status while the wife just had to be pretty and a make a good housewife. Custom did not permit girls to be educated, to work, or to have social let alone sexual freedom…. And, though, less restricted than girls shackled to their families… A wife was nearly indispensable, if only to darn socks, sew, cook, clean, take care of her man (Gupta 77). Along with this, women are often treated as assets or property. Poor families will arrange for young women to marry wealthy men so they will be “taken care of.” Sometimes parents will even sell their daughters off to marriage. These marriages also happened in order to relieve feuds between families. In the Middle Eastern, particularly Pakistan and Afghanistan, they perform compensation marriages. Compensation marriages are a custom where the family presents a young girl to marry into another family in order to settle conflicts. In addition to the infringement of freedom and rights on the female, males face this as well even though it is not as severe or as common from the female perspective.
Arranged marriages create a line on diversity and integration. In simpler words, arranged marriages force individuals to elope with other individuals that are a part of their race, religion or...