According to Wikipedia – the free encyclopedia, “From 2002 to the latest survey data as of 2012, 29% of first marriages among women aged 15–44 were disrupted (ended in separation, divorce or annulment) within 10 years. ” This is alarmingly a high rate of marriage failure. After reading the novel by Jordan Sonnenblick, “Notes From the Midnight Driver” , I am submitting a research paper on the topic, “Family Divorce” using the situation of the novel as an example.
Alex’s dad, in the novel, ran away from his marriage with Alex’s 3rd Grade teacher. He was perhaps disappointed with Alex’s mom. Alex’s mom, as a result, was mad at his dad. Her frustration was justifiable but after completing the novel it became clear that the couple’s frustrations and disappointments were immediate and did not last for ever.
From this example, we can say that often couples are frustrated with their immediate disappointments and want to take divorce. However, in their immediacy, they can’t see or remember a long term effect of their decision. In this research paper, I wanted to raise three questions about family divorce and answer them in order they are raised.
Why people opt for divorce?
Some divorce are genuine separations where one of the spouse is violent or addicted to drug but NOT ALL. Some divorces are the result of quick upsets or immediate disappointments or infidelity such as is the case with Alex’s dad.
How divorce are realized?
Getting into relationship is very easy. Getting out of it is not that easy. Our Governments grant marriages readily but they do not un-grant them into divorce readily. There is a legal process that couples have to go through the court system. They not only have to pay the court fee but the divorce lawyer’s fee as well. This is a big expense. It takes away money from the everyday expenses and lowers the living standard of the family involved in the divorce case. Also, as per Wikipedia, ‘The legal process for divorce may also involve issues of spousal support, child custody, child support, distribution of property and division of debt, though these matters are usually only ancillary or consequential to the dissolution of the marriage.’ What this means is the couple will have to pay big bills to many services such as accounting services and other lawyers’ services to take care of all those complicated issues. This is a drain on time and money.
What are the after effects of the divorce?
When Alex was arrested he blamed all other things that was happening in...