While girl friends are sitting around fireplaces gossiping, sharing recipes and talking about the latest fashion trend, boys are exchanging opinions on the new administration and forming great friendship that may well impact the future of the whole country. History has witnessed some of the greatest friendship between men. As a result, their friendships have been idealized as the embodiment of bravery and loyalty. In comparison, those cozy nights girls spends wrapped in the bonding of sisterhood seems both trivia and naïve. Although these stereotypes about men’s or women’s friendship are not completely true, there is no doubt that significant differences exist between friendships among men and friendships among women. While sisterhoods are intimate, committed and strict, men’s friendships are more practical, segmented and casual.
It is not abnormal for a woman to pick up the phone and call her best friend the minute she gets home. This simple action illustrates precisely what woman expects of her friends --- emotional support during times of distress. Having had a stressful day at work or a fight with her spouse, woman will go to her friends for comfort and advice. After a shared cup of hot cocoa or just a ten-minute chat on the phone, females feel assured, calmed and less overwhelmed. The bond of sisterhood is usually forged on the exchange of the “deepest and darkest secrets”. During those whispers on sleepovers, girlfriends share not only their biggest wish for Christmas, but also their secret crush at school. This sort of intimacy is precisely what women looks for when they form friendship.
On the other hand, the friendships between men are more often based upon shared interest than on closeness. Although it is true that Sherlock Holmes has more than once referred to Dr. Watson as “intimate friend and associate”, these two great friends don’t share much of their most personal feelings. Their friendship, similar to many among men, is based instead on mutual interest in adventure and the science of deduction. In a situation like this, men choose to be practical, and form relationship where both parties would gain from their shared goal.
After the bonds of friendship are formed, women would usually remain deeply committed to their friends. Emotional attachment is a unique part of sisterhood. A female friend might be the first to realize that the marriage of another is falling apart. And it might just happen that this same friend would have enough care and courage to suggest suing the abusive husband and moving on with life. On the whole, women care and notice a lot more of the physical...