Lately an extensive issue all around America is centered on gay rights. Does being gay or straight make you less of a person? The debate in the political world concerning this is over allowing or denying gay marriage to be legal. Even though this is an exceedingly controversial topic, Legalizing same-sex marriage will have a positive effect on society because it won’t harm the institution of marriage, it will uphold the constitution, and it will inevitably happen either way.
What does marriage mean? Some people believe that marriage can only mean a commitment between a man and a woman, but others believe that marriage can mean a commitment between any two people who love each other and want to be with each other (Lewis). People who oppose gay marriage argue that the traditional definition of marriage is between a man and a woman and it will weaken the institution and eventually lead to interspecies marriages (ProCon.org). In order to change that mindset, gay couples must display some profound differences in the idea of what marriage means (Badgett 88). Couples were interviewed and asked what they thought the reasons to marry were. Some examples they gave were: to express an intention to stay together, to express a commitment to each other and to their families, to possess a legal bond and share their life, to ensure the wellbeing of their future children, to cement their bond to each other, and to create a political statement (Badgett 89). According to these interviews, the majority of couples didn’t specify that marriage could only be between a man and a woman. Therefore, the argument that marriage is only for heterosexual couples is ridiculous.
Allowing gays and lesbians to obtain a marriage certificate will not harm the institution of marriage. Marriage has been tied to procreation and therefore has been a major reason against gay marriage even if the couple doesn’t want to raise kids (Badgett 91). Even though love is the main reason people get married, it is not the only reason. People marry for money, non-sexual companionship, even health insurance (Kellard). Does that mean these reasons also threaten the institution of marriage? In this view how is a gay couple getting married any more threatening to the institution of marriage than marrying for money? It is extremely difficult to understand how a gay couple getting married will affect a heterosexual marriage in any way (Kellard).
Marriage is not a social obligation. Not all heterosexual couples get married and not all same-sex couples want to get married (Badgett 89). In fact, there is an increasing number of heterosexual couples who choose not to marry and instead live their lives outside of marriage (Badgett 88). States that have legalized same-sex marriage possess a whole 12% lower divorce rate than states that ban legalization (“Gay Marriage Debate”). Massachusetts was the first state to legalize gay marriage and it has the lowest divorce rate in the country (ProCon.org). Hence, there...