1. Does the articles/websites discuss gender stereotypes in the language? If so what did you learn?
Gendered language is something that is all areas of my life from the day I was born and has continued daily since then. It is around us all the time but most of us don’t really pay much mind to or just don’t see it. I saw it growing up in school and even as a small child. My mom worked inside the house and my father was the bread winner he paid bills as well as did the work needed to be done on the outside of the house. This was the norm for me, yet interestingly enough I preferred working outside of the house unless it was cooking. My dad was the strong firm silent type that showed minimal emotions and my mom was the sensitive loving emotional one.
Neerja and Swati refer to various words in the English language that specifically target women in a not so complementing way, yet the similar word towards a man more of a positive implication. Many words degrade the women while when speaking of a man it’s a good term. (2009). I find it interesting that the word man is in the word woman and yet we are not the same creatures. In school the boys always played the rough sports and the girls would play badminton. Men and women are viewed differently and hopefully one day we can change this through gender conditioning and using gender neutral language. (2013). If a man is an executive secretary that does not mean he is gay nor does it mean that if a woman is an electrician that she is gay. Those specific occupations may tend to have more gays and lesbians in them but they are obviously not exclusive. We need to change our perception and stay open minded in life.
I go to Home Depot often and it seems to always be assumed by the employees that I do not know what I am talking about if I come in my regular clothes. If I come in with my painting or work clothes on I am treated so much differently. I get more respect and tend to get better customer service because even though I am a woman in the store, I am treated more like a man would by Home Depot. My role is more masculine when I am in my work clothes and seem to be more convincing that I know what I am talking about. I have also found that if men think that I am gay, (and I am), they tend to for some reason treat me completely different that the ones that think I and heterosexual. I am still the same woman but the perception of others has the power to impact my world in a negative way if I allow it. For the most part I just overlook people that are that way as best as possible and hope someday these things will change.
In the video, (2013), it shows that we can represent masculine and feminine behaviors throughout our daily lives. One of my jobs is working at Frys and I work in the back of grocery. After the store closes the grocery load shows up in a big semi and I unload it. This is a very physical job. I am 5”1 and weigh 120 pounds and I am 51 years of age. When the drivers see me for the first time,...