Walking down the street, Skylar seems like an ordinary man going about his daily business, but looks can be deceiving. Skylar was originally born as a female, and feeling he was supposed to be a male, started transitioning to male at the age of 16. “He’d just been burdened with a body that needed medical and surgical adjustments so that it could reflect the gender he knew himself to be,” writes Margaret Talbot (2013). Skylar’s family was very accepting, as they had already expected this from the time he was quite young. They gave Skylar time to think over whether he really wanted to transition or not, and when he decided he did, they were extremely happy for him and helped him through the transition. Skylar’s testimony shows the positive influence that having a transsexual family member can have on a family. Having a transsexual person in a family will positively influence that family and educate them on more conservative issues dealing with the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender community.
While some families are just as accepting as Skylar’s family was, not all families will like one of their members identifying as transsexual. According to Anita J. Catlin and Bethany Gibson (2011) , there are two kinds of responses towards transsexual teens and children from their families. One response is “acceptance using mental and physical health measures to ease the transition, and waiting to see what develops in the future.” This benefits the child and family more by the family accepting the child as they are which then in turn opens up the eyes of the family. The other possible response is for the family to “consider feelings as a treatable disease and attempt to treat the child by reprogramming.” This response hurts the child and family, as the child will feel like what they are feeling is wrong and will keep everything to themselves. This can also cause anxiety and depression for the child and will them cause them to become emotionally distant from their families.
Gender Identity Disorder, most commonly known as Transsexualism, is a state in which a person identifies as being the opposite sex. Most commonly, transgender people go through a process to change to the preferred sex. According to Staley in When Boys Would Rather Not be Boys, this process can start as early as age 10 with puberty blockers which are easily reversible if needed. When the individual completing the transformation has reached puberty, or has already passed it, they start going through hormone therapy, which includes oral estrogen or testosterone injections. Lastly, the individual goes through one or more transformation surgeries, giving them the desired characteristics of the opposite sex.
Though most transsexuals go through many physical changes, a big part of transitioning is emotional. Before major transitions, most doctors require that the individual must go to therapy and be tested for any mental illnesses. Because of ridicule and discrimination, it is not...