[Q6] There is no pure state within the human condition; happiness is a state of mind, a mentality. Any type of relationship can lead to happiness or any other type of state. Everything depends on everything else. Achieving goals is the key to happiness, but it depends on what kind of goals. Intrinsic and extrinsic goals determine what type of happiness you’ll have. Intrinsic goals leads to inner fulfillment, on the other hand; extrinsic goals lead to pleasure and anxiety.
[Q6, Q11] Having extrinsic goals is focused on external gain and rewards and looks forward for wealth, fame, praise, status and personal image. The more people that achieve extrinsic goals are tools to be used by someone else’s gain and do not own control of own self to make a decisions. The individual is stuck on a tread mill running forever seeking please to fill the void, that missing emotional hole. This void is filled by material and objects to reach “happiness” but on the contrary, it leads to paraphernalia of suffering because anything that is used to fill the void doesn’t last and an individual is stuck with the constant seeking of filling the void with objects that doesn’t have any significant. The individual in the thread mill misses out on all the things that would be important to them and leads to anxiety because of the constant seeking of new materials and objects that satisfy you temporarily. Examples of extrinsic goals would be going to college to get a degree, getting good grades so your parents will recompense with a treat, and learning to cook so later you will earn money as a chef. All of the examples are focused on doing a something to get something in return.
[Q6] On the other hand, having intrinsic goals in our life will nature our senses of well-being and looks forward for personal growth, meaningful relationships and desire to help. This leads to happiness because happiness isn’t just one state of being; it’s a mentality. It’s the ability to take what life has given you and to personalize it in a way that benefits you. For example; going to college because you want to learn, getting good grades because you want to and learning how to cook because you enjoy cooking. Setting your goals to be beneficial in your life will bring happiness which is simply a by-product of living a loving, meaningful life.
[Q9] Similarly to intrinsic goals, the bio-psycho social nature of human development is a key factor to happiness. The interaction with our social psychological environment and the aspects of the environment are relevant to human behavior. True happiness comes from surrounding yourself with people whom you love and love you in return. If the environment in which the person is surrounded by is healthy, then the happier the person may be.
[Q9] One major...