This Thing Called Hedonism
Music is something almost everyone listens to for various reasons, like for happiness, relaxation, grievance, or even for focusing. With all the various genres out there that suits the needs of what people like to hear rather it’s a beautiful saxophone of jazz or the singing of opera. Music is everywhere such as on the radio, tv, and even on our phones. Music can change your mood really fast when you’re feeling down and listen to a nice up beat song. Music affects us all in different ways, from the way we walk, talk, and how we dress. Through my years of growing up I would mostly listen to whatever my parents would listen to. My Mom listened to R&B, Hip-Hop, and Jazz, while Dad would also listen to Hip-Hop, R&B, but he also listened to Rock, and Alternative. I ended up liking them all but the one that really stuck out to me was Hip-Hop.
Hip-Hop was usually up beat and energetic. I would hear songs from Hip-Hop artists like Tupac, Nas, Emienem, and Jay Z. They are considered to be the best ever in hip-hop music. I never really paid attention to the negative aspects of Hip-Hop I would just listen to the beat and lyrics, not how they degraded women, talked about violence, and those kinds of things. In the mind of younger me a good song was with nice rhyming on it and a nice beat to go with it. It seems like Hip-Hop was starting to lose its fire. It was not as good as is it used to be. It seems like it is getting worse and worse as I get older.
It just seems like now hip-hop artists have let their self-pleasure and masculinity takes over just to gain respect people in their music. All the songs do is degrade women and promote violence. Most songs involve some form of talk about sex, and they take it to a whole another level by making women seem like they are just for sex and not loving, they make sure they are happy themselves. That masculinity over women causes the hip-hop artists to degrade them and call them “hos” . A phrase that is commonly said in the hip-hop culture “we don’t love them hos”, which is how a lot people in the hip-hop culture follow. That phrase means that that one would never fall in love with anybody. (Tracey Denean Sharpley-Whiting,” The Irony of Achievement for Black Women”Ebony Magazine, July 2007:86-88, Print). The artists of hip-hop just worry about if she felt good in the bed and that there is money being made off the songs they make. They want all of these things to gain respect from society that are into the hip-hop culture. Young African American males in hip-hop can demand respect by being flashy, showing off their money and disrespecting women, J. Cole's song "Can't Get Enough" repeats the same old hip hop myth that self-centered hedonism is all that men need to be masculine.
Respect is one of the most valued things to most hip-hop artists. They go about getting it in various ways. Driving a fancy car, have sex with the hottest woman on the planet and releasing a sex tape, and...