Did you know that many college students are in contact with their parents multiple times per day for a variety of reasons? College students in this generation are overly dependent on their parents to the point where it is harmful to the development of the student. The absence of independence from parents during college is an issue because it creates an obstacle that obstructs the path to success. Helicopter parents hinder the development of essential skills of and cause emotional distress in their college-bound children as a result of contacting them too frequently; therefore, young adults require independence from their parents in order to mature properly.
The term “helicopter parenting” is used to describe parents who contact their college-aged children too frequently and are overly involved in their young adult(s) life. College Parents of America, an organization that helps parents and college students transition smoothly into college performed a study using members of their organization. The survey was conducted in order to obtain statistics regarding the frequency of student-parent contact during college. Over 1700 parents “from all 50 states and the District of Columbia” participated in the survey (“2nd Annual”). Parents from all 50 states and the District of Columbia were included in order to obtain a fair and accurate representation of the United States population. The parent-student communication frequency chart shown below provides a visual of the results.
The data that was gathered revealed, “more than one in three parents are in contact with their student at least daily or more than once a day (30.7%). Almost three out of four parents communicate at least two or three times per week (72.5%). Only a tiny fraction communicate once a month or less (0.9%)” (“2nd Annual”). Although this data was gathered in 2007, it is the most recent survey of its type and provides very accurate information. It is safe to say that parents and college students are very frequently in contact with each other.
The excessive amount of communication between parents and college students leads to the lack of essential skills for both basic and complex processes necessary for college years and beyond. One skill that is vital to succeeding in life, especially during college, is the ability to study. There are students in college who rely on their parents to help them study during college because it makes it “easier” to do well on tests. The issue here is that the ability to study is useful far beyond college as well. For example, lawyers need to study their clients’ cases in order to represent them efficiently in the courtroom. It would be absolutely unacceptable for a lawyer to call a parent in the middle of a trial to ask for help. Because of this, it is unheard of to have someone with no independent study skills make it through law school. Achieving academic success can be very challenging if college students get too caught up in attempting to teach...