Have you ever been treated so unfairly, but knew there was very little you could do to change it? If so, then you know exactly how many of the homosexuals in the world feel about the right to marry. Many homosexuals feel that this right has been kept just out of reach for them, due to others who despise them. These individuals believe that being gay is wrong, immoral and disgusting; but this is definitely not the case. Gay marriage should be allowed in the United States because this decision supports the idea of equal rights, the effectiveness of children with homosexual parents, and this act would do no harm to society.
As stipulated in the definition of Equal Rights, the bill of rights contains ten amendments. It is inside these ten amendments that the right to separation of church and state is held (Lewis 3). Since this is the case, based on this amendment, all homosexuals should be allowed to marry, no matter if it is against certain religions or not. When it comes to this particular topic though, religion is no longer disregarded, but is instead pushed to the forefront where it suddenly matters more than someone’s happiness. This is not an example of the freedom our country claims to give.
Being married is not a quick ceremony and a fun filled week. “By legalizing their commitment, a couple ensures that their relationship is recognized and respected by every facet of society” (Kafka 24). By legalizing gay marriage, gays have a chance to experience this immense joy of being accepted by everyone, and not have to hide their relationship or be ridiculed. Many gay couples have domestic partnerships, but in a number of states these partnerships mean very little. It was best worded by Troy Perry when he said,
Anything less than full marriage equality is second-class status for gays and lesbians. I know the argument: ‘Can’t we get most of our rights through civil unions?’... Those weren’t acceptable answers to women who worked for full equality at the turn of the 19th Century… and they aren’t acceptable answers to the lesbian and gay communities who are working for legal equality-- including marriage equality at the dawn of the new millennium. (27)
Marriage is not the only right that gays want, but also any other rights that they are entitled to. In 2004, the US general accounting office found that exactly 1, 138 federal benefits are granted to married couples including filing joint tax returns and inheriting each other’s Social Security and pension benefits when one spouse dies (Kafka 25). These rights are crucial when it comes to an emergency. However, as a result of being only partners, not spouses, homosexuals never have the chance to act on these benefits. The situation we have now is not sufficient by any means.
Furthermore, equal rights have been a problem in the workplace. Many people will not hire a homosexual for illegitimate reasons they claim are real. Although, there are those who actually do end up making it...