Death is something that many people have a hard concept grasping. The fact that a loved
one can be there one second and then the next second, they’re not. Everyone will deal with this at
some point in their life. People grieve in numerous ways˗ some people convey a facade and go
about their lives while for others, it’s difficult to make it through the day. My hope is that
someone will sincerely listen to the words I have to say and know that their feelings are valid and
that they are not alone. There’s no right or wrong way to grieve, but these are a few steps one
should take to deal with grief.
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Every time you think of that moment, just
smile and know that those happy times will outweigh all of the terrible thoughts. After losing
someone, it’s natural to think about every second of every minute of every hour that was ever
spent with them wondering if anything could have been done different. In the end of it all, just
laugh and think of that person’s smile and all the joy they brought to your life because those
times are worth so much more than the terror you’ve had to face.
Remember that they are and always will be around to watch over us. No matter what
religion one believes in, whether or not one believes in Heaven and Hell or that it’s all too much
to know for sure, be open to signs from the deceased. It’s acceptable to be skeptical of the
afterlife and to wonder about contact from spirits. So many people speak up saying that they’ve
been contacted from their loved ones after they’ve passed away. Many people question whether
or not they will hear from their loved ones or if that loved one will see the things they
accomplish. Look out for signs because the fact of the matter is that they will be there. From
hearing songs on the radio with hidden messages, to feeling their presence, to even seeing
random objects move on their own, these are all signs. These signs are proof that they are still
around. The signs may be minor and it’s possible that other signs could take place that are a little
more frightening. It’s possible for the deceased to show up in pictures or even feel them touch
you when you are asleep. Yes, this does sound crazy to...