Leaving your child at school for the first time can be an overwhelming roller coaster ride. First-timers are absolutely full of challenging surprises! But hold on there dear parents. There are helpful ways which could alleviate the separation anxiety.
It is significant for us to convey that different folks have different strokes. In the same way, first-time preschoolers have peculiar behaviours too. Some may adjust to the situation easily. However, others can be a handful both to the parent and the teacher. Most especially to those who are very attached to their mom or dad. Moreover, it is arduous for the fulltime moms. Some children tend to be very clingy and their tantrums seem to be endless. Separating from you for the first time is certainly a crucial situation for them. But one thing is for sure, it will all pass. Just give some time for your child to adjust. Complement it with suitable preparations, and then everything else will fall into place. To make it a bit easier for you, here are some tips that might be of help to overcome the separation anxiety of your first-time preschoolers.
Earnest explanation can be the trick.
Clarify to your preschooler the need to attend school. You can tell your child that everybody has to study. You can go as far as becoming what he wants when he grows up. Or just by simply pointing out that you want him to have more friends. Likewise you want your child to learn more and school is just the perfect place. Describing how enjoyable school is can be constructive. You might want to inform your child where you are while he is at school. And that you will soon pick him up.
Brief your child what to look forward to at school.
You can start by visiting the school. Enjoy touring around the facilities and of course your child’s prospect classroom. Try to be enthusiastic as you indulge your child with the tour. Ask for the schedule of activities so you could further brief your child at home. From that day on, try to excite your child at all the fun school activities. In this way it encourages your preschooler to look forward to his first day.
Try to hide your heartbreaking emotions when you leave.
As much as possible don’t showcase your sadness. It says that the child can pick up your feelings as well. So make an effort to show that you are excited too. Show encouragement to your child that he will be fine at school. Furthermore, remind him how exciting the school activities are. So when you part ways, inject those flashy smiles and encouraging hugs. One more tip to enliven the moment is to ask your child to say these words before you leave: “I love you”, “Take care Mommy!”, and/or “See you later”. It creates a sense of security to your child. Try this tip for it is effective for my child. She even smiles and waves her hand.
Help your child to mingle with everyone.
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