Ideal Image of Media
James, a senior in high school, had said, “On social media, you have to look like this, your body has to be shaped this way, you have to have this skin color, you have to have this smile to be acceptable to society… And I don’t fit in” (Shalby 1). The media has a huge impact on our everyday lives and how we view the world. It surrounds us and gets inside our mind. Media affects our opinion of ourselves and others mentally and physically. Modern day media has altered the way people view their appearance and this can lead to mental and physical issues.
Everyone seems to compare each other to the media or to each other. Friends ask their friends opinions, sisters compare themselves to each other, and every person is compared to those in the media. Sometimes people can’t help it or they don’t realize they do it. Media has consumed the viewer’s mind, leaving everyone under a state of unreality. Jessica Yadegaran held a survey for one thousand girls based on body image in the fashion industry. 65% of those girls think the image the industry presents is too skinny, 63% say it is unrealistic to look like that. Surprisingly, nearly 50% wished they were as skinny as the models and that they actually strive to look like that. The image society and the media projects is distorted, unrealistic, and is effecting how young women view themselves and others. The images of the perfect women in advertising and movies sets up the stage to what people expect and want to be. Eileen Guillen and Susan Barr were set out to research just what kind of image Seventeen magazine was sending to their viewers, back between 1970 and 1990. They proved that even back then, magazines had a part in the expectation of thinness from women of all ages (Grogan 95).
Women are not the only ones having to live up to these standards. Males are just as judged and compared to the media as females are. Males do not care to admit it, however they are expected to look like the males seen in movies and magazines. The males are expected to be more fit and built and have a higher muscle mass than the females. The females are expected to look like the opposite; small, petite, and skinny. Although these images are total opposites, somehow it is what people wish to look like and strive to be. In 33 television shows, 69% of women were voted as thin, while only 18% of the men were the same. 5% of females were described as heavy while the males had 26% (Grogan 94). These expectations are very unrealistic and yet, people still wish and work themselves to have their bodies look like those models and stars in the media. Media portrays women and men to appear attractive and perfectly put together in the smallest size possible, this is more so towards the women though. “Women may judge themselves according to the perfect images used in advertising or the media, or compare themselves to the high profile women in beautiful-body professions, such as acting, modeling, ballet or gymnastics”...