Humans are self-centered beings at their core, no matter how ‘good’ a person really is. One can be as kind a person as possible, but in reality, they often will still put their own interests before others. Self-deception at is essence is a poison of the mind, hindering one from having a realistic understanding of the world that surrounds them. When people put themselves before others, consciously or not, they are often neglecting the best interests of the people in their lives. In the book Leadership and Self-Deception, the Arbinger Institution discusses the difficult problem of self-centered behavior that often is unnoticed. The book uses an example of a box – a box of blindness to the crippling self-deception many of us exhibit – to illustrate the fact that people are metaphorically trapped in the box of self-destructive hubris. Through the narrative of Bud Jefferson, vice president of Zagrum Company, the book illustrates the negative outcomes this self-centered behavior “inside the box” can bring, and points to ways to work on “getting outside of the box”.
Humans are fallen beings, born as sinners, living self-centered lives, often making decisions in our own best interests. The only being who has ever lived a life completely outside of the box is Jesus Christ, the son of God as a man on Earth. He did not care how people perceived him, he only cared about others, specifically those who others did not care the least bit for such as the diseased, the criminals, and the prostitutes. In the end, he sacrificed himself for the fallen, self-centered humans he created, the ultimate “outside of the box” act. No one since or before has been such a shining example of how to lead others and live free of self-deception and self-betrayal - another negative outcome of selfishness. To be as far outside of the box, we do not need to follow the example of Bud or the book, but that of the Bible and Jesus himself. No example is more clear, or more pure in intention and free of predominantly self-interested behavior.
Jesus Christ may be the perfect example to follow, but it is unrealistic to think we can ever achieve what he has, as we as humans are never free from sinful behavior. Nonetheless, it is important to realize that self-deception is a sin, something we must strive to rid ourselves of.
People are aware that other people do not always relay their actual feelings in what they say, as words only carry some weight behind the true intent of what is on persons mind and heart. Say a high school teacher one day tells a student that annoys them and hinders their lectures...