My father once told me what makes you a man is taking care of your responsibilities and leading by example. I know now what he meant by that saying. He was telling me that a good man is responsible for taking care of his family and being a good role model. For most of us, family is the foundation for the type of people we become in the future. They sets the path for our lives; they are mostly responsible for our values and beliefs as we spend most of our time around family.
Most people adapt to their surroundings. We become part of the environment we are in on a daily basis. Therefore, I believe family determines the path of our life; it shapes our mentality of life and our ambitions for the future. Family can lead us towards success or failure. Families that lead wholesome and responsible lives tend to develop children with the same traits. For example, if you are brought up in a family that has past generations that have graduated from college it is most likely that you will as well.
Others believe that we are in charge of our own life. There are also people that have turned out to be the opposite of their families, but not many turn out for the better. In rare instances people with families that are less fortunate or just complete menaces to society, become successful model citizens in life. Yet in most cases the apple doesn’t fall from the tree. Saij states, “Sometimes people do get ‘programmed’ to do bad things. There is a mountain of evidence that shows children who grow up in abusive households are far more likely to become abusive themselves.” (2007) Retrieved February 4, 2010 from: www.dailykos.com/story/2007/4/19/193444/034
We don’t get to choose our family,...