Although people tend to believe that child abuse always involves obvious bruises or broken bones, it is so much more. Child abuse ranges from ignoring a child’s needs, physically assaulting them, or even leaving them in dangerous situations including unsafe unsupervised places. There is also emotional abuse including name-calling, making a child feel worthless, or even making a child feel stupid. If a child grows up without ever getting help, then the chance that they too will become an abuser is much higher than if it is caught at a young age.
Most people assume that it is only the bad people that abuse their children. It’s not that easy to classify because who draws the line between good and bad? Sometimes the abusers don’t even intentionally abuse their victims. Parents for instance may discipline their children to “teach them a lesson”. Depending on what measures are taken, abuse may have taken place. Even families that seem like they have everything they need and are completely happy, have a different family within closed doors. Although the parent to child abuse rate is one of the highest ratios, abuse can happen by other people too. “Most states define perpetrators of child abuse and neglect as parents and ‘other caretakers’”. Basically, most people who abuse children are parents, babysitters, or relatives. The people that the victims are supposed to be closest to, often end up being the ones to destroy them emotionally and physically.
Sadly, victims of child abuse are mostly 18 months or younger. These children don’t have a chance to stand up for themselves, and often times don’t have a voice for themselves. In 2010, “Of the number of children who died because of abuse or neglect, 79.4% were younger than four years of age and 47.7% were younger than one year in age” (Safe Horizon). There is nearly a 50/50 rate between being male or female victims. There is no four year old I know is going to be able to stand up to an adult, and they are often threatened that if they tell anyone more bad things...