Whether it is the 1500s or the new millennium, love is still essentially the same although with some differences in customs. Romeo and Juliet is the very epitome of love in Shakespeare’s time.
Marriage in Shakespeare’s time mostly served as a union of two parties interested in acquiring property, money or political alliances. Few ever married for love.
Most girls were married at 14 or 15. In Shakespeare's famous play, Romeo and Juliet, the readers are able to see the significance of age in marriage. Juliet's mother, Lady Capulet, demonstrates the fact that it was possible to marry off a daughter at the extremely young age of 14 years old. Juliet is 13 when the plays starts and Lady Capulet is already in great haste to marry her off. Therefore, she feels it very important to talk the matter over with her daughter immediately: ...younger than you, Here in Verona, ladies of esteem, Are made already mothers. By my count, I was your mother much upon these years that you are now a maid-- (I.iii. 69-73) Lady Capulet felt that it was high time Juliet be married. Romeo is about 16 in the play. Shakespeare uses the ages of Romeo and Juliet, to point out the characteristics of young lovers. Many of the young lover’s actions are due to their young age. The play depicts young love as fickle, dangerous, rash and probably has a tragic ending.
Throughout the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, various types of love are portrayed in Shakespearean society. Shakespeare argues that in society there are several different types of love, the interchangeable love and the love based on appearances, but only true love is worth having.
The first type of love is the interchangeable love of Benvolio. According to Benvolio, a man should love a woman for only the duration of their relationship. If their relationship should end, the man should feel no grief. If the woman rejects the man initially, he should still feel no grief. In either situation, the man should simply start a relationship with another woman. “But in that crystal scales let there be weighed/ Your lady’s love against some other maid/ That I will show you shining at this feast, /And she shall scant show well that now seems best” (I.ii.103-106). Benvolio's definition of love shows the audience two things about Benvolio and the general view of most males in those times: he is a womaniser and he has never before experienced true love.
Men, especially young men were almost encouraged to be fickle, they seem to be constantly falling in and out of love.
All the mothers would choose a man who was attractive and had a suitable position in society for their daughter. Lady Capulet, as well as the Nurse, believes love comes from appearance, both physical and political, and has nothing to do with emotion. She shows this when she speaks favourably of Paris's looks and his nobility.
Females were seen as fragile and were treated delicately. Males regard women more as property than as an individual. Paris has a...