“The Apple Doesn’t Fall Too Far”
In The Joy Luck Club, all of the mother and daughters in the story have comparisons in the stories of their life. Waverly and her mother Lindo are both stubborn and play tricks to get what they want. Suyuan and her daughter June are both determined women who put others before themselves. Ann-Mei and her daughter Rose must learn to stand for themselves at the end of the stories we are told about them. Lena and her daughter Ling-Ling are both too passive towards their husbands, they both get taken advantage of by their husbands which ruins their marriages. In the end the mothers can teach he daughter valuable lessons in life, and about respecting themselves. “A mother is best. A mother knows what is inside you,", (Tan) a true, prevailing statement from the novel.
The first story we hear in The Joy Luck Club is that of Lindo. Lindo was chosen as a small child to be married to a young boy in the wealthy Huang family when reached 15 years old. Her family always treated her as though she was already married and were constantly training her to do things that would please the Huang family. However, Lindo’s family had to move away, leaving her to be married as a young girl not truly knowing what it was the other family wanted from her. In the end, Lindo’s young husband mistreats and lies on Lindo to save himself. The Huang become angry with Lindo and begin mistreating her, because she does not get pregnant, without knowing that it is their son who is not willing to do the deed it takes one to become pregnant. Lindo decides to play a trick on the family to get herself out the marriage without shaming her family name. From that time on Lindo does what she thinks will make herself happy, remembering what she told herself before getting married “I made a promise to myself: I would always remember my parents’ wishes, but I would never forget myself ”(Tan). Lindo’s daughter Waverly share the same will to make her mother proud. Waverly does everything she thinks her mother wants from her, including marrying a Chinese man. However, much like Lindo, Waverly comes the realization that for her to be happy she has to do the things that will please her. Both Lindo and Waverly do things that they think will please their mothers, but they play around the fact that they do not want to be in situations they put themselves in.
Suyuan and her daughter June are always willing to give up their own happiness for the luck of others. While Suyuan was running away from the War taking place in China she was left to care for her two baby girls on the tumultuous journey. Suyuan does not think that she will make the trip and die on the trail with her babies. She knows that if she dies beside her babies then no one will want to look after them out of the fear that they are unlucky and will forever have their mothers ghost following them. Suyuan decides to leave the babies and everything of value that she has, on the side of the trail. She goes off...