AP is a Dutch male in his late fifties. His wife, ASP, is a partially Native American and Caucasian female who is in her late forties. According to Erikson’s developmental stages, both AP and ASP are in middle adulthood and their crisis is generativity v. stagnation (Pastoral Psychology, Vol 53.). AP and his wife do not have children so creating a legacy through parenting cannot play itself out. They both, however, have nieces and nephews who they are exceptionally close to. Interviewing both and AP and ASP there was no evidence of stagnation or self-centeredness. Their relationships with their nieces and nephews demonstrate their impact on the next generation. ASP brought them up in the interview conversation without even being prompted to do so.
AP has shown his emotional flexibility, based on Peck’s Psychological Development in Middle Adulthood, through moving forward from his first wife of 23 years dying of Mesothelioma. He has shown mental flexibility with all of his job commitments (Neugarten, B. L.). From being in the restaurant business to briefly learning commercial piloting to retail management to being the director of business development at a home health agency, AP has definitely shown his growth in intellect over the years. His variety of careers has equipped him to help his current employer to diversify the company.
AP’s change in employment and age puts him into the transitional period of entering into late adulthood; this is consistent with Levinson’s Life Structure, Life Eras, and Transitions to Men. AP says that he thoroughly enjoys working at this home health agency more than any of his other career choices. He appreciates the challenges that come with the job see them as keeping him up to date.
ASP seemed to care more about socializing and valuing wisdom then sexualizing in human relationships and valuing physical powers (Neugarten, B. L.). ASP got married to AP in 2003 while she about 38 years old, much older than the average American getting married. The way they met each other was truly through socializing and the way ASP fell in love with AP was through valuing his thoughts and actions towards her and others. Throughout the interview ASP answered kindly and openly demonstrating her socializing skills.
Both AP and ASP seem to fulfill and meet at least the top 4 levels of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs as well as the four needs described by Glasser (Simons, J. A. et al., 1987). AP and ASP are in rather good health, they both are working in jobs that they enjoy, which helps them to provide for each other and keep a roof over their heads. They are close to family and have a good set of friends, when describing their relationship ASP says that they always finish each other’s sentences and thoughts. They both have hobbies and enjoy their free time together. They respect each other and the others around them very well.
Developmental Cycle of the Family
ASP was still living with her parents...