Through the years I have learned that my experiences are what carry me through life. Through these experiences I have developed strengths and weaknesses.
Let me start by naming my strengths and abilities. Anticipate Tasks, Problem Solving, Vigilant while Sleeping, Resolving Conflicts, Open Minded, Decision Making, Follow and Lead, Work Under Pressure, Team Player, and Handle Multiple Tasks.
My weaknesses are procrastinating, not listening well, contradicting myself, Selective Hearing, and settling for the minimum.
The development of these abilities and skills are due to the Marine Corps. The ability to anticipate tasks is part of being a Marine and a good leader. Anticipating what's next without receiving the order to do it is a Marine Corps standard that is necessary to learn and grasp. When you learn to anticipate tasks or see what the outcome is before hand is advantages when dealing with everyday life. I tend to know what will happen next when my children are at playing and are doing things they are not suppose to. When driving I can anticipate what other motorists can do before they do it. In the beginning of the class I was anticipating all the requirements. This week I ran into a block that slowed me down and I know is hurting my team. It is hard to take control back when you loose and I did not anticipate that. It is difficult when there is no presence of the team and we have to rely on the Internet to communicate with one another. This is a big obstacle to overcome.
Problem solving and working under pressure operate together for me. I work better under pressure. This I have learned while I was in High School. I managed to develop a second gear when I was running out time and I had to juggle multiple things. I was doing dancing; soccer and homework so it left me no time to attack the big homework assignments. I knew I was risking my sports and my extra curriculum activities if I did not keep my grades up. I developed this without thinking. It works for my advantage. At work I function well under pressure, not only it is a requirement, but also to me there is no room for mistake. I am not trying to be a perfectionist because some details maybe missed during the task process. Paying attention to detail and knowing what you are facing in the heat of the moment helps to attack any task and finish on time. In life I do procrastinate also. I put aside what my wife says and things that I need to do for my kids. If it does not have to be done right now they I do it when it is time to do it. It is a bad habit that is affecting me right now. This week I failed to interact more with my teammates not only because of my busy week but because in my mind the thought of, "there is always tomorrow," keeps making me push time. At work and in my personal life working under pressure makes my...