Our mind works like a computer and our way of thinking acts as its inputs. Our thoughts keep on gathering into it and slowly, they entrench deep down in solid states. We can divide personality in two halves. First is that, which the psychologists term as ‘T- Personality'. This is a toxic personality. Second is that, that the psychologists call N-Personality and this is energetic.
The poisonous T-Personality
This type of N- personality always keeps a negative mindset about everything. The attitude of poisonous personality always tends veering round pessimism and dispirited. Being a perfectionist is an example of a toxic persona. You cannot say that this perfectionism is something wrong, but it's one and only aim is to find faults with everything on this planet. You cannot find faults in such a person, who is in search of perfection. But in reality, perfectionism is not his goal, but a mere means to be pessimistic. He wishes only to see flaws, wrongs, and insufficiency. This is the best method to keep perfectionism as the goal just to criticize, comparing everything agreeing to one’s own set ideals.
A poisonous personality perceives always sees things which are not. The things present never comes within their sight. Hence, discontentment forms up in them permanently and naturally. A toxic personality makes lethal not only himself, the people around him also.
This could also be like the legacy. If you have lived your childhood in midst of negative people, this negativity could be hidden beneath the glossy words, beautiful language, ideals, heaven, religion, and spirit. Poisonous people could use nice words, but this is an attempt purely. They talk on subjects of another world to denounce this world. They are not at all concerned with this world. They have got nothing to do with saints or Apostles, but they talk of saints to prove others sinners.
This is a very sick approach. They would urge others to become like Jesus without having not even an iota of interest in Him. This is a wherewithal in their hands only to criticize you. You become victim of such persons because you cannot become Jesus. The will keep disparaging you. They decide the paradigms for scales of fame, policies and ethics becoming a judge. They try to be the contractors of society. They have a big role in making world toxic.
These personalities roam everywhere. They could be anything- Teachers, Professors, Vice Chancellors, Saints, Bishops and Pope. They want to become this so that they could condemn. They are ready to sacrifice everything provided the get the pleasure of denouncing others. Such types become overpowering very soon. Their outlook is their greatest weapon because they cold become detractors. Being logical too, is a part of a poisonous personality. They are extremely rational. It is very difficult to defeat them in debates, but they can never be sound with rhyme and reason. It is essential to know the difference between a reasonable man and a logical man....