Antoine de Saint-Exupery writes in his book “The Little Prince” about values in life and presents the reader confidence and reliance. At the same time Saint-Ex awakes his audience to look critical at themselves and implies challenges and difficulties in the life of humans. He expresses the danger of less relationships and safeness from humans to their homes when he remarks that “most humans do not have roots, what is really bad for them.”1
The challenge which Saint-Ex points out in “The Little Prince”, to leave one’s home behind, is still present. When students come to college, they leave their family and sometimes also the family support behind. They have to find a new place for safety, and social life and have to deal with influences like new people and environment. They get the opportunity to look back to their past social life from an objective viewpoint. In the same way they have the chance to look forward to achieve a new social life and independence from the old one, but the effort to leave their old world behind and establish an individual idea who and how they are or want be, may create challenges. To establish relationships with unknown people contains risks and could result in less assurance. Students offer their person for friendship, but at the same time they face to identify themselves. Multiple encounters teach a lot about the new world and give first year students many ideas who and how they are. For these reasons students have to deal with many different and new emotions and feelings. Some will be pro active, but others will experience uncomfortable feelings like uncertainness and low self-esteem. Important is this subject also for teenagers who are non-students because every human have to face identification challenges in his life.
Every human comes to the point when he thinks about himself and about his life. Typical questions from humans who try to discover themselves are “Who am I?”, “How I want to be?”, or “How do other see me?” Hermann Hesse emphasizes the difficult path of self-discovery in his book Demian when he states: “I wanted nothing try more as to live, which itself wanted live out of me. Why was that so difficult?”2 Humans modify and develop themselves, or influences like biology or environments cause modification and development. The identity of humans is flexible and can assimilate to the currently socialization. “Identification process is a concept from the child and adolescent psychology. Scholars and the literature use this term to describe a process in which humans in the appropriate age (try to) define themselves. “Character, attitudes, and aims in life are the main terms that the young concern themselves in this process.3
With the enrollment in college, teenagers go into a new world. (First year) students are confronted with new organizations, assignments, environments, and requirements. It is a big academic step that can cause challenges, but the new mental, social and cultural influences in college...