Many people do not realize how serious bullying has become. If you look at statistics suicides due to bullying have increased over just a few short years. This has become a very big problem for not only the victim but the bully as well as it affect both of them. School bullying is mentally destructive to not only the victims, but bullies because of the harmful words, harassment, and physical violence involved as well as the consequences for the bully.
The general definition of bullying is, “… [This] states that a person is being bullied when he or she is exposed repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons” (Aluede et al. 3). There are two different variations in bullying type such as direct and indirect bullying (Aluede et al. 3). Direct bullying is publicly attacking someone, whereas, someone who harasses their victim by exiling them socially is a form of indirect bullying (Aluede et al. 3). A lot of people think that the typical bullying situation is physical, but it can go beyond that (“Verbal Bullying” 1) Bullying can be put into four different areas of harassment; physical, verbal, emotional, and cyber bullying (“Teenage Bullying” 1).
Physical bullying is one of the easiest types of harassment to identify (Aluede et al. 5). Bullies use physical force to beat, kick, or even damage someone’s property, “[Including] books, clothing, or lunch money” (“Physical Bullying” 1). Physical harassment is typically found more in the male gender than in females, but they are still able to portray these crimes or become victims themselves (“Physical Bullying” 1). They could have several reasons to bully their victims, such as, to be in control or to be acknowledged (“Physical Bullying” 1). A person that physically abuses another person will, more than likely, later in life turn to illegal acts of violence as well as fail in their jobs and relationships (“Physical Bullying” 1).
The most common type of bullying among females is verbal bullying (“Verbal Bullying” 1). This type of psychological bullying uses derogatory terms to demean, or lower, the victim in the eyes of others to show that the bully has power over them (“Verbal Bullying” 1). This causes the person to have low self-esteem and develop depression in that victim (“Verbal Bullying” 1). Verbal bullying is the most psychologically damaging and lasts well into adulthood (Aluede et al. 6). “[Words] have a power all their own, and the realities of verbal bullying can have very physical consequences, even if the aggressor never lays a finger on the victim” (“Verbal Bullying” 1) In more severe cases of verbal bullying, or any bullying for that matter, can lead to drugs because the victim wants to escape his or her tortured life, in more extreme cases if the person’s depression worsens it could lead to suicide (“Verbal Bullying” 1).
The well-organized ripping away of respect and affection is called, emotional [bullying] (Deal.org 1). Emotional bullying...