Self Image and Judging Others
Would you rather be called good-looking or attractive? Is there a difference between a good looking and attractive person? To many probably not but I believe there's a thin line that separates those two words. A person might be very good-looking yet not attractive. How is that possible one might ask? Well the answer is very simple; it all depends on the attitude and personality.
While working at Express I get a chance to observe people, their behavior and image and what role it plays in overall appearance. Let's admit it we all judge people at one point or another. When you meet someone the first impression is solely based on looks. Some people look at the smile, some at the eyes, some at clothes, hair or height. Even if you don't want to admit it we judge people on their appearance. Yet that impression is very superficial and short lasting. When you go home the thing that stands out most in your mind is not the physical appearance but the overall image and that includes the attitude. So even though in today's society physical appearnace plays a significant role, it is the attitude that one projects which determines the overall image. So in order to distinguish the difference between good looks and attractivness we must see how both physical appearance and attitude effects each one of them.
So lets start with physical appearance. The make up you wear, the clothes, shape of your body, hair are all part of your appearnace. Looking at someone these are qualities we first perceive. Physical appearance plays a huge role in our society. It helps you in many ways. People treat you differently when you look good. Let' s look at example.
Working at Express I've realized that image very imprtant in interaction between people. It both affects the costumer and the associate. A costumer who is nicely dressed, has his hair done has an advantage over a person who is not well put together. The sales person is more likely to approach the well groomed person becuase of the image she presents. Her look says 'I know how to dress, I want to get some help, so come and help me' I don't personally agree with this but this is just human tendency to judge people on their outward appearance. The same thing goes for the associate. A costumer is more willingly to accept opinion from someone who has a good image rather than someone who doesn't look professional. The look builds up the credibility but that's when the attitude comes into picture. Because no matter how both the costumer and...