Sex. Do we need it? Or do we want it? It can be the ultimate expression of love for another human being but it can also be about pleasure and two people caught up in the moment. We live and breathe the media. We’re constantly fed ideas both directly and subliminally and told to believe them, but there are two sides to every situation and generally the Catholic Church is the other side of the situation. The two are constantly at one another’s neck trying to prove whatever point they’re trying to make. So what’s up for battle tonight? The media will be in the left corner and the Catholic Church will be in the right. Both will be weighing on how they view sex.
We dream of meeting the perfect girl or guy and living out our long overdue happily ever after. Human nature tells us we need this, that we need someone to love us, that we need someone to want us. Although it’s not quite as easy as it used to be. Most men today aren’t looking for a commitment, which has left women feeling insecure. This single insecurity has forced women down a path where they’re constantly searing the Internet for a glimpse of hope that someone, somewhere holds the key to the mystery of how to make your man fall in love with you. The catch is where exactly on the Internet are they searching? By simply typing into Google “How to make your man fall in love with you” about 806,000,000 results are there at your disposal. Out of those 806,000,000 results number 5 leads to the popular online magazine known as Cosmopolitan. The link will direct you to an article written by “relationship experts” which has 22 tips on how to make a man fall in love with you. The tips vary from simple things like filling your refrigerator to complex strategies like playing mind games. Others go as far as playing the “damsel in distress” so he can come to your rescue (Cosmopolitan).
Going back to the 806,000,000 search results and scrolling through for a somewhat unreasonable amount of time the link for Waitingtillmarriage pops up which is a website ran by “relationship experts” as well. Once this particular webpage opens up it leads to 20 different tips on how to make a man fall in love with you. These tips consist of more intellectual activities such as reading up on his favorite books in order to spark conversation to less complex things such as making him laugh (Waitingtillmarriage.org). These two websites that are run by so called “relationship experts” have exceptionally different ideas when it comes to making a man fall in love with you. Cosmopolitan aims its advice in a more sexual direction by handing out recommendations that tell women how to dress, how to act, and how to actually trick someone into loving you. It goes to show that the media doesn’t value sex. Sex has become second nature to the majority of society because the media tells them that it’s okay to use sex to get what you want. Waitingtillmarriage sends across a different message by directing their tips toward things like...