The journal article is talking about the difficulties which the single-parent families facing, such as emotional problems, housing stress and financial stress. It generated different viewpoints from different literature, and suggested an approach to meet the needs of single-parents.
There is no doubt that both children and parents from single-parent families would more or less with some emotional, personality and interpersonal problems. This reflective paper that not aim to go further to explore the above symptoms and related impacts in their life or society. Instead, I would like to go further and modify what single-parents should aware and point out some ideas that what the families, school and our society could do, for the purpose of assisting those families.
Single parents are defined as mothers or fathers who are widowed, divorced or separated, who take the responsibilities in the raising with child or children aged under 18 in the same household. According to the statistic data provided by Census and Statistics Department, it shows the total numbers of single-parent family was increased from 34,538 in 1991 to 72,326 in 2006. That means an annual increase of 2,500 household. And the report projected an increase trend in the future. So, we must pay attention to this situation, and the Government’s policies should be match accordingly.
So, what single-parents could do to keep their child in a relatively better environment?
Strategies and other suggestions
First, single-parents should be aware their emotional and perspective problem. They usually complain and shrike responsibility, they may easily fall into pessimistic, and unwilling to bear the uncertain risk in life. Some of them always blame the various conflicts and problems arise due to the incompleteness of family. Sometimes, they even easily fall into tantrum, together passing the idea of “single-parent family is not normal” to their child. Day after day, children grow up in such family would convince to believe, or affected by their parents that the thoughts of “I am not normal” when compare with others. So, Single-parents should establish a sense of responsibility, pay attention to the unity between education and love. Regardless who owns the custody of child; they should establish a sense of responsibility: Do not hide the “truth” to their children. Do not slander each other maliciously; allowed to visit are of vital important aims to transmit a positive image to child – despite the separation, but not enemies. Furthermore, do not strive to compensate the child with any kinds of materials if it is over normal demands due to their guilty.
Second, Single parents should avoid blindly exclude each other. Many divorced couples not allowed to their child to contact other side, and some even find a place to move to avoid any meeting opportunity, so that children cannot see...