Most people agree that social networking in this new era tends to make people overshare everything, as Mary Katherine Ham in "We Shall Overshare" argues that the newer generation share way too much of their personal life online. In addition, author Brent Baughman in "Growing Older in the Digital Age: An Exercise in Egotism" argues that the digital age hasn't improved people but rather introduced egotism through social networking to the newer generations. As a result people have lost all etiquette through social networking such as Facebook; according to Elizabeth Stone in her article "Grief In The age of Facebook" people lose their shame of grief and mourning's of a loved one. Social networking is transforming our behavior in negative ways
First off, social networking can be disrespectful when mourning the death of a loved one. Ham also states that "Facebook is such a natural extension of my daily life that ...view middle of the document...
Baughman argues the digital age transforming this generation's behavior into egotistic perception. As Baughman states in his article, "[t]he modern birthday is a fantasy of attention" (286). The only day of the year where people are more into themselves because there will be plenty of messages and comments to read on Facebook, rather than celebrating with family at a restaurant for example I experienced a similar situation two years ago, I was checking my Facebook feed for birthday comments as well as messages. As for newer generation in the twentieth century are interested that egotistical perception of self. Social networking transforms behavior even when users don't realize it.
Another negative aspect of social networks that have transformed the newer generation’s behavior. Stone argues that the transformation is so catchy that people today share their grief of a loved one on Facebook through a memorial page they created. On the other hand, social networking can have its benefits as well. Stone says that "...markedly technology has influenced the conversations of grieving among my students, offering them solace but also uncertainty" (292) showing people it's easier to grieve on Facebook, than in reality. Ten years ago, when I lost my younger sister to a car accident, people posted memories and pictures on my Facebook page expressing their condolences and how sorry at our loss. At the time, I did not like to publicize that part of my life online so that others would feel bad for me and apologize for my loss. It made me wish I had a more private life. However, today I appreciate the support from people who sincerely mourn our loss. In this social networking can be a good thing.
Overall, social networks have changed the newer generation’s behavior when it comes to oversharing, egotism, and public grieving on Facebook. When not used properly it can make people less respectful towards others and more egotistical than anything. Furthermore, social networking will continue to transform generation after generations behavior if used in moderation and with sensitivity towards others, it's not a bad thing. It's all about moderation.