Not one single person on earth can explain why they are where they are in life in a single sentence. I used to think that I would just take a year off of school after I graduated from college. Maybe I would explore or just work a lot and save up some money so I could have a little more freedom in life. Whatever it was, I was not quite sure yet, I just really did not want to be in school for a while. Well, my plans changed when everyone I knew was telling me not to do that because I would most likely not go back. I also saw friends that were older than I was take that break, and then regret it when all of their friends were graduating without them. I changed my mind pretty quickly after hearing about and witnessing their mistakes and decided to go to college right out of high school after all. But after attending Shasta College for just a few weeks, I realized that I actually liked going to school. I found a whole new love for learning. I actually enjoyed soaking up information and learning from my professors. Looking back on my life, I'm so glad that my little idea of not going to college for a while was out weighed by all of the reasons that did cause me to go. My primary group which consists of my family and my boyfriend, the way I view myself, and the values that I hold close to me all greatly affected my decision to attend Shasta College.
Values can be defined as, "a society's stipulations about what is acceptable in life" and through values, society creates norms which are standards of behavior that govern that society (Lucas, 2008, p. 112). In other words, over time, a group of people decides what should be done in certain circumstances as well as what should not be done. Values are sociologically important because it can help explain how or why certain patterns of behavior occurs within and outside of specific societies.
Like most Americans, I value education and everything that comes with it like a good stable job and a sense of accomplishment. Aside from values that Americans hold, I value what my family thinks to a great extent. My family has always encouraged me to attend college so that I can be an independent woman and be able to take care of myself.
My values have affected my life decisions because it is how I evaluate how to react to situations. My initial reaction to nearly everything in life is based upon my value system. The value system that I hold, mostly comes from the Christian lifestyle that I was brought up in. School definitely isn't the highest thing on my priority list. Being there for my friends and reaching out to others is much more important to me. However, I feel that I can help others more effectively with and education in psychology. So I decided that going to school to get a degree in psychology would probably be a good idea since helping people is what I really love to do.
A primary group is what Charles Horton Cooley explained as, the phenomenon that "people tend to have face-to-fave interactions and...