One of the stresses of being in the services is one's family, the spouse especially. They are always afraid of what will become of their marriage more than anything usually before the husbands or wives deploy. Some of the spouses cope by either showing excitement and supporting their husbands or wives, or distancing themselves from their loved one by arguing, not communicating, or talking about their own independence. Once their husbands or wives deploy, however, new issues arise. Sometimes this leads to the spouse coping using another person, developing feelings, and getting a divorce while their spouse is still deployed. Other times it leads to depression problems and turning to their ...view middle of the document...
The spouses should communicate as much as possible to maintain a good strong-bonded relationship together while the husband, in this case, is overseas.
Most of the time, the reunion between couples when being home is usually pretty happy. Although most couples make the transition very easily, complaints are usually in the line of them being unable to communicate well. Military couples sometimes struggle with what to say to one another when their spouse returns. What was found was that, “when husbands return, they struggle with what to disclose because they know they could be deployed again and do not want their wives to worry or imagine similar situations in the future.” The wives face the struggle of what information that actually want to know to the information they do not along with what to share with their husbands about their time apart. Husbands usually want to talk about the harshness of war, whereas the wives want to talk about what all happened in there time apart. This causes friction in the relationship because the topics do not usually click.
War veterans started showing and bringing attention to PTSD in the public. PTSD can stem from traumatic incidents, such as sexual assault, torture, being taken or held captive as a prisoner, bombings, plane crashes, or even things like natural disasters which include floods, tornadoes, hurricanes, or earthquakes. People who are released to this kind of mess, especially war veterans, end up hurting themselves in a more mental way, which mainly affects their relationships with other people. Some may fully recover in a few weeks or months, others may never recover that state of mind. PTSD is funded by the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) at the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and is one of their top studies. Those that are high risk for PTSD include those who go through life time tragedies or disasters, which highly include veterans who were in war or combat.
“Among veterans returning from the current wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, PTSD and mild to moderate traumatic brain injury (TBI) are often linked and their symptoms may overlap.” Blast waves can rattle the brain from the impact of the explosion, causing TBI. Today, service men and women total up to hundreds of thousands who have all seen combat, been shot at, seen their buddies killed, or witnessed death up close making them high risk for PTSD.
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs has estimated that almost thirty-one percent of Vietnam veterans, ten percent of Gulf War (Desert Storm) veterans,eleven percent of Afghanistan soldiers, and twenty percent of Iraqi war veterans and soldiers are afflicted by Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
Only a portion of enlistees are actually enlisted for the “desire to serve for one's country.” The Pentagon has actually done further research into the actual reasoning on why young people wind up in the military. These reasons range from economic pressure to the desire to escape a situation at...