Tips For Staying Calm During A Toddler Temper Tantrum
Understanding why a toddler temper tantrum is occurring is the first step to getting control over the tantrum. As much as parents want to believe their child is simply a smaller version of them, it is not true. A toddler is a child, not a little adult. Adults can express their feelings and have control over their behavior, a toddler cannot.
It is completely natural for every toddler to have a tantrum. The worst part is that it usually does occur when we least expect them. The terrible two’s having earned that title appropriately as it is normally around the age of two when a toddler will begin tantrum behavior. When a child begins kicking and screaming this is not a sign you have a bratty child, it means the child is frustrated and trying to release his frustration the only way he knows.
At this age the toddler is beginning to develop quickly. He is attempting to learn anything and everything he can. At the age of two, the toddler cannot form the complete words or sentences he is attempting to convey to the caregiver. If the child is hungry or sleepy, he may not be able to verbally say this, so throwing a tantrum is out of frustration for not being able to get out what he wants to say.
It is a given that the child will have more than one tantrum through the toddler years. After the first or second time it become clear if the childs behavior is due to frustration or if he is attempting to manipulate you into something. Often times during a frustration tantrum it is because the child is hungry and cannot form the words to say this. Offer the child a snack or meal and use this as a learning period. Teach the child to say hungry or eat while preparing the meal, he will soon to...