“He committed suicide in the bathroom, of his mother's house. He had hung himself, with his nine year old brother to find him. I am 14, I am grieving, and I wish I could have helped. My friend was an amazing person. He was a musician, a poet, and above all, a friend to everyone. Our community misses him, the world misses him, and nobody knew it was coming. There was no signs of depression, there was no immediate note, there was no goodbyes. In fact, he planned for the future, he wanted to move on with his life, and he had the most potential I've ever seen in a person. (Anonymous)” (Prevention, par. 3-4).
Approximately 2,000 teens between the ages 10-19 have attempted suicide each year in the United States alone. Among the 19,895,072 teens of the ages 10-14, about 300 of them commit suicide each year, and this does not take in the concept of attempted suicides. Of the 19,882,596 teens of the ages 15-19, approximately 1,621 of them commit suicide within a year, and alarming amount larger than a mere 300 (Nami, par. 2). Many of the teens of this generation are suffering within themselves and with no one noticing, they decide suicide is the best option. The warning signs of suicide should be well known in society, so that we can prevent suicides from happening.
There are many warning signs to suicide, and they are broke up into 4 different parts, which are feelings, actions, changes, and threats. First of these, feelings, stand for the emotions that suicidal people tend to feel. There are reported feelings of hopelessness and helplessness, or that there is no hope for them and no one can help them with their issues (Preventing Teen Suicide, par. 4). There is a fear that they are going to hurt themselves and or others, or the fear of losing control of themselves and doing things they normally would not dare try. Among these feelings are self-hatred, guilt, shame, and worthlessness. The feeling that they are not worth anything, but are disgusting, ugly, and are not needed in this world. They suffer from extreme loneliness, sadness, anxiety, and worry.
Another group of warning signs are the actions of a suicidal person. These include drug and alcohol abuse, aggression and impulsiveness, recklessness, withdrawal from people, talks or an unhealthy obsession with death, self-mutilation or destruction, and suicide attempts. Aggression and impulsiveness may include punching walls, kicking and screaming, and an on-going attitude. They are reckless with little things, for example not looking twice before crossing the street or not wearing a seatbelt. Little things like that may seem as though they are pointless or unimportant, but when someone is suicidal they have no real concern for their life. Self-mutilation or destruction are very serious. It is more common for a person to mutilate themselves on their stomach or upper thighs because they do not want people to see their pain, which is contrary to the popular belief that cutting usually occurs on the...