The Changes in Women's Roles
Do you ever wonder how women's roles have changed in recent times? Originally women were in the household to take care of family matters such as cooking, cleaning, and children. Now in more modern times women's roles have expanded to working outside the home to take control of their families, and to work and take care of the children. Along with the increase of women in the work place the business of working at home and entreprenuership has become a valuable resource for women.
Mothers in the work force must face their jobs, children, and husband's everyday. Many bosses are willing to sympathize with women who have kids. However many of their co-workers believe that this is a way of getting extra attention. The children of these mothers may feel that they are not receiving the attention they are entitled to. Also some corporate husbands who work long hours don't have time to do motherly duties (Swiss and Walker, 6).
"In 1975, according to the United States Census Data, 28 percent of mothers with children under the ages of three worked outside of their home. Today, the numbers exceed over 60 percent."(Who's minding the kids, pg. 73). Men who prefer not to get their hands dirty, leaving the less desirable jobs to for women whom may not be capable of handling such a heavy load are taking many female positions. It is very hard for a parent that is divorced and trying to raise the family and take on a tiresome job too. Apartments and rent are the least of the troubles, especially since the price to rent an apartment has gone up over the years making it very difficult for single parents without degrees or experience to find etiquette jobs. Many men think it is easy to work and come home to bring up the kids. It is very hard on these parents who have low self-esteem about themselves because barely go anywhere or have nice things to wear. People as a whole need to get out away from their problems not using this as a reason to run but relaxation. When you bring children into the picture, everything changes. You become that provider for the family which can bring on a lot of responsibility and demands that causes a person to become stressed and depressed braking up your family. There are men who don't want their women to be independent but dependant on them. There is also that inner pride of whether or not their partner is making more money than them. Since these are things that should not matter, there is more time to spend with the children whom in return do better in school and other extracurricular activities.
A working women life can be crazy and fast paced. It is making list with things that are never crossed off (Employed Mothers and their Children, pg. 108). A working mom needs help from an inner and outer force. It is very hard to carry the responsibilities of the family on their shoulders, just as it is hard for any one person to absorb all the responsibilities of there whole family...